When you think of pigs, what do you think of? Well, I’m hungry so I’m thinking bacon. But we see the Bible talking about pigs being the lowest of the low, like dogs. Gentiles were considered to be pigs and dogs. The picture of a pig is not like the cute and cuddly Wilbur from Charlotte’s Web. Pigs stink and roll around in the mud. If you have ever fed hogs you know they don’t have manners. They will knock you over to get to their food.
“Do not give dogs what is holy, and do not throw your pearls before pigs, lest they trample them underfoot and turn to attack you.
Jesus told us to have discernment in order to determine when to cease teaching someone. As Christians, we can learn when it is time to move on. As God’s children, we can begin to recognize when we are casting pearls before swine. We have to be careful about it, and pray for God’s love and mercy. We don’t want to move on when God wants us to stick it out and keep teaching. But we also probably have experienced times in our life when we spent way too much time and tears on someone who could have cared less.
The Lord taught us that we must develop discretion and learn when it is time to move on. Sometimes you are just laying down fancy jewelry on the ground for a pig who could care less about pearls. If the pig does happen to swallow the pearl, it will just pass through if you know what I mean.
Here are several passages from Scripture that teach us God’s wisdom about learning to move on. There are some people that will eventually display to you that it is not worth beating your head against the wall for them.
Look at the contrast Jesus gives between his disciples and the crowd. The crowd, for the most part, didn’t really want to learn, nor did they really see Jesus as the source of eternal life. The disciples on the other hand, were always asking and begging to learn and understand more.
And when he was alone, those around him with the twelve asked him about the parables. And he said to them, “To you has been given the secret of the kingdom of God, but for those outside everything is in parables, so that “they may indeed see but not perceive, and may indeed hear but not understand, lest they should turn and be forgiven.”
With many such parables he spoke the word to them, as they were able to hear it. He did not speak to them without a parable, but privately to his own disciples he explained everything.
You see, Jesus knew when to take time to explain things. He also knew when it was time to “shake the dust” off His feet.
And if anyone will not receive you or listen to your words, shake off the dust from your feet when you leave that house or town.
Some are constantly learning and never coming to the knowlege of the truth (2 Timothy 3:6-10). They get an “A” in book smarts but an “F” in wisdom. The Scriptures warn us that if we focus so much on casting pearls before swine, then we may get trampled by the pigs.
Whoever corrects a scoffer gets himself abuse, and he who reproves a wicked man incurs injury. Do not reprove a scoffer, or he will hate you; reprove a wise man, and he will love you. Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be still wiser; teach a righteous man, and he will increase in learning.
A scoffer does not like to be reproved; he will not go to the wise.
Do not speak in the hearing of a fool, for he will despise the good sense of your words.
Like snow in summer or rain in harvest, so honor is not fitting for a fool. Like a sparrow in its flitting, like a swallow in its flying, a curse that is causeless does not alight. A whip for the horse, a bridle for the donkey, and a rod for the back of fools. Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest you be like him yourself. Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he be wise in his own eyes. Whoever sends a message by the hand of a fool cuts off his own feet and drinks violence. Like a lame man’s legs, which hang useless, is a proverb in the mouth of fools. Like one who binds the stone in the sling is one who gives honor to a fool. Like a thorn that goes up into the hand of a drunkard is a proverb in the mouth of fools. Like an archer who wounds everyone is one who hires a passing fool or drunkard. Like a dog that returns to his vomit is a fool who repeats his folly. Do you see a man who is wise in his own eyes? There is more hope for a fool than for him.
Meditate upon these things today. There are people around you who are hungering for the word. Teach them. There are others who will fight you on every point. Teach them too, but know there is a time to move on and let the seed that was planted do its work. God’s word will do exactly what He designed it to do in their heart. You could be driving yourself crazy with someone who is acting like the fool of Proverbs while someone else is really hungering for the word and you have not given them the attention and time they need.
Think about it.